{"id":17192,"date":"2025-10-14T10:46:37","date_gmt":"2025-10-14T09:46:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.42ndgenerationfoundation.com\/achieversfaithdigest\/?p=17192"},"modified":"2025-11-04T10:47:02","modified_gmt":"2025-11-04T10:47:02","slug":"hello-christian-men-words-matters-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.42ndgenerationfoundation.com\/achieversfaithdigest\/hello-christian-men-words-matters-3\/","title":{"rendered":"Hello CHRISTIAN Men – WORDS Matters\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Hello CHRISTIAN Men – WORDS Matters: Keep Speaking GRACIOUS WORDS To Your Wife\u00a0And\u00a0Other Women Out THERE In Your Life!\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

“You are SNARED by THE WORDS OF YOUR MOUTH; you are TAKEN by THE WORDS OF YOUR MOUTH”<\/i>\u00a0Proverbs 6:2\/NKJV.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“HOLD FAST the FORM of SOUND WORDS, which thou hast heard of me, in FAITH and LOVE which is in Christ Jesus. 14 That GOOD THING which was committed unto thee KEEP by the Holy Ghost which DWELLETH in us”\u00a0<\/i>2 Timothy 1:13-14.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Are you a godly spirited and hearted man? And if YES, are you speaking gracious WORDS toward others, especially towards your wife and the women\u00a0around\u00a0you? Or you are a mean, childish loosed mouthed boy-man who speaks some OUTRAGEOUS and DEPRAVED words to your wife and other women that are out THERE\u00a0around\u00a0your life sphere? Have you ever thought that as a man that WORDS MATTERS, and any OUTRAGEOUS, DEMEANING and DEROGATORY words are very much unnecessary no matter the level of elemental things that THE she woman must have done? Do you know or realise that you are the CUSTODIAN of what you say – be it good or evil, especially as a Christian man? Do know for sure, that\u00a0it’s\u00a0out of the NURSERY and NURSED WORDS in your hearts, that your mouth speaks – be it the good or evil.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“For every TREE is KNOWN by his own FRUIT. For of thorns men do not gather figs, nor of a bramble bush gather they grapes. 45 A GOOD MAN OUT OF THE GOOD TREASURE OF HIS HEART BRINGETH FORTH THAT WHICH IS GOOD; and an EVIL man out of the EVIL treasure of his HEART bringeth FORTH that which is EVIL: FOR OF THE ABUNDANCE OF THE HEART HIS MOUTH SPEAKETH”\u00a0<\/i>Luke 6:44-45.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“Let no CORRUPT communication PROCEED out of your MOUTH, but that which is GOOD to the use of EDIFYING, that it may MINISTER GRACE unto the HEARERS”<\/i>\u00a0Ephesians 4:29\/Amplified.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

As I picture Jesus Christ this morning and moment, the author and finisher of our FAITH in God, I could recall over and over again in SCRIPTURAL CONTEXT how He speaks and answers to many matters that would have made Him to have an outburst\u00a0[Hebrews 12:2; Hebrews 1:1-4].<\/b>\u00a0The\u00a0graciousness\u00a0and gracefulness of His choice words\u00a0calms\u00a0down matters and send the ENEMY and COHORTS at bay for the good of OTHERS about Him. Even at a very temperamental point of testing of His life, He was gracious to the end.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“And ALL BARE HIM (JESUS CHRIST)\u00a0WITNESS, and\u00a0wondered at the GRACIOUS WORDS which PROCEEDED out of his MOUTH. And THEY SAID, is not THIS Joseph\u2019s son?”\u00a0<\/i>Luke 4:22\/Emphasis Mine.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“Hereafter I WILL NOT TALK MUCH WITH YOU: for the PRINCE of this world cometh, and HATH NOTHING in me”<\/i>\u00a0John 14:30.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“The Pharisees also with the Sadducees came, and TEMPTING desired him that He would shew them a sign from heaven . . .”<\/i>\u00a0Matthew 16:1-4\/ [Mathew 19:3; Matthew 22:35; Mark 8:11; Mark 10:2; Luke 11:16; John 8:6].<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

And as one privileged under God to Pastor and Shepherd in His grace and BLESSEDNESS, hearing from women how some of we men speaks to them, especially to our wives and the women’s\u00a0around\u00a0us – speaking to them in a demeaning and derogatory way is becoming appalling in\u00a0every way\u00a0on each and every given day. Just because we can’t see eyes to eyes on some COMMON issues doesn’t mean we can’t be civil and maintain a sense of civility in graciousness and gracefulness in the grace – except there’s an element of scriptural ignorance, which makes me wonder if we sincerely do know and understand, when the scripture says we share the same common enabling grace to do life on earth and live godly toward God the Father in Christ Jesus stead. Know full well dearly beloved brother in Christ Jesus, that WORDS MATTERS, hence, every man especially should\u00a0seek\u00a0for WISDOM on how and when to speak, especially when addressing your wife or other women\u00a0around\u00a0you irrespective.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“WALK in WISDOM toward them that are without, redeeming the time. 6 Let your SPEECH be\u00a0always\u00a0with GRACE, SEASONED with salt, that ye may KNOW how ye OUGHT to ANSWER every man”\u00a0<\/i>Colossians 4:5-6.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

” . . . 7 Likewise, ye husbands, DWELL with them ACCORDING to KNOWLEDGE, giving HONOUR unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as BEING HEIRS TOGETHER OF THE GRACE OF LIFE; THAT YOUR PRAYERS BE NOT HINDERED. 8 Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous: 9 not\u00a0rendering\u00a0evil for evil, or railing for railing: BUT CONTRARIWISE BLESSING; KNOWING THAT YE ARE THEREUNTO CALLED, THAT YE SHOULD INHERIT A BLESSING. 10 For he that will LOVE life, and SEE GOOD days, let him REFRAIN HIS TONGUE FROM EVIL, and HIS LIPS that they SPEAK NO GUILE: 11 let him eschew evil, and do good; let him seek peace, and ensue it. 12 For the eyes of the Lord are over the righteous, and his ears are open unto their prayers: but the face of the Lord is AGAINST them that do evil”<\/i>\u00a01 Peter 3:1-12.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

More so,\u00a0it’s\u00a0a great act of wisdom to know and understand especially when having differences, to separate ISSUES on discusses from the PERSON. THE ISSUES IN DISCUSSIONS AND THE PERSON’S ARE NOT SAME.\u00a0So,\u00a0when you have conflict in ISSUES,\u00a0don’t\u00a0MAKE it into a PERSON’S attacking, name calling and such like – simply because the common issue on\u00a0discusses\u00a0have not been resolved to anyone satisfactory desire.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s\u00a0my earnest passion that you may ALWAYS remember this concept explained in context below from today FORWARD, in moving toward an ONWARD and UPWARD trajectory for the good and healthy relationship:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“SMALL, MEAN SPIRITED AND HEARTED MINDS TALKS PERSON’S; BIG, SPIRITED AND HEARTED WISE MINDS TALKS ISSUES IN CONTEXT AND NOT PERSON’S”<\/i>\u00a0–\u00a0Chukie\u00a0MORSI Snr<\/b>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s not in my place to be specific, but if you think you are a GODLY man that eschew EVIL WORDS from your MOUTH and not as a CHILDISHLY boy-man that’s acting out; and can you be mindful how you speak to your wife and the God given women\u00a0around\u00a0your life both in private and public settings for WORDS matters in God’s kingdom affairs for the godly in Christ Jesus stead. Amen.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Therefore, I plead with you today to SPEAK wellness and WHOLENESS\u00a0in order to\u00a0LIVE well and whole. You can live healthily healthy and whole by your WORDS for your own self good and goodness, and for all\u00a0around\u00a0you too – be they male and female – and more especially, to your wife and women within your reach.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Have an awesome and blessed day with GRACIOUS WORDS as Lord Jesus Christ in His stead, in LIFE and GODLY LIVING. Amen.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

SELAH – PAUSE AND THINK\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

SCRIPTURAL THOUGHTS WORTH PONDERING IN CONTEXT:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“And ALL BARE HIM (JESUS CHRIST)\u00a0WITNESS, and\u00a0wondered at the GRACIOUS WORDS which PROCEEDED out of his MOUTH. And they said, Is not THIS Joseph\u2019s son?”<\/i>\u00a0Luke 4:22\/Emphasis Mine.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“For even HEREUNTO were ye CALLED: because Christ also suffered for us, LEAVING us an EXAMPLE, that ye should FOLLOW his steps: 22 who did no sin, neither was GUILE FOUND IN HIS MOUTH: 23 who, when he was reviled, reviled not again; when he suffered, he threatened not; but committed himself to him that\u00a0judgeth\u00a0righteously”<\/i>\u00a01 Peter 2:21-23.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“For every TREE is KNOWN by his own FRUIT. For of thorns men do not gather figs, nor of a bramble bush gather they grapes. 45 A GOOD MAN OUT OF THE GOOD TREASURE OF HIS HEART BRINGETH FORTH THAT WHICH IS GOOD; and an EVIL man out of the EVIL treasure of his HEART bringeth FORTH that which is EVIL: FOR OF THE ABUNDANCE OF THE HEART HIS MOUTH SPEAKETH”<\/i>\u00a0<\/i><\/b>Luke 6:44-45.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“A man\u2019s BELLY shall be SATISFIED with the FRUIT of his MOUTH; and with the INCREASE of his LIPS shall he be FILLED. 21 DEATH and LIFE are in the POWER of the TONGUE: and they that LOVE it shall EAT the FRUIT thereof. 22 Whoso FINDETH a wife FINDETH a good thing, and OBTAINETH favour of the Lord”<\/i>\u00a0Proverbs 18:20-22.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

” . . . 7 Likewise, ye husbands, DWELL with them ACCORDING to KNOWLEDGE, giving HONOUR unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as BEING HEIRS TOGETHER OF THE GRACE OF LIFE; THAT YOUR PRAYERS BE NOT HINDERED. 8 Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous: 9 not\u00a0rendering\u00a0evil for evil, or railing for railing: BUT CONTRARIWISE BLESSING; KNOWING THAT YE ARE THEREUNTO CALLED, THAT YE SHOULD INHERIT A BLESSING. 10 For he that will LOVE life, and SEE GOOD days, let him REFRAIN HIS TONGUE FROM EVIL, and HIS LIPS that they SPEAK NO GUILE: 11 let him eschew evil, and do good; let him seek peace, and ensue it. 12 For the eyes of the Lord are over the righteous, and his ears are open unto their prayers: but the face of the Lord is AGAINST them that do evil”\u00a0<\/i>1 Peter 3:1-12.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a GODLY seed.\u00a0Therefore\u00a0take heed to your\u00a0spirit and\u00a0let\u00a0none\u00a0deal TREACHEROUSLY against the WIFE of his youth”<\/i>\u00a0Malachi 2:15.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“And the TONGUE is a fire, a WORLD of\u00a0iniquity:\u00a0so is the TONGUE among our members, that it DEFILETH the whole body, and SETTETH on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell. 7 For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed of\u00a0mankind: 8 but the TONGUE can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison. 9 Therewith BLESS we God, even the Father; and therewith CURSE we men, which are made after the similitude of God. 10 Out of the same MOUTH\u00a0proceedeth\u00a0blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be”<\/i>\u00a0James 3:6-10.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

REV. CHUKIE MORSI<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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